Tag: Students Life

16
Aug

Gossips- I don’t fear you now

In life, we meet lots of people. Some of them like us, some of them don’t. But have you noticed that those who don’t like us used to like us some time? They start disliking when they find something which they think is wrong. And this disliking is just based on their own life’s experience till today. When we get to know this, these things start to bother over mind a lot of times. Our mind cannot see itself not liked by someone. But this is a mind’s problem. Let’s try to see the complete picture.

Suppose someone was once our friend. They used to talk to us nicely. When they came closer, they get to know us. Some of our habits started bothering them. They start thinking about those habits and judging us that why I am like this. When we get to know that they don’t like us because of some habit, first of all, we are hurt. And our mind cannot accept this fact. So it tries to solve this. We go to that person and try to solve it. We somehow manage to feel that now they think good for us. This is what all of us do. But is it the best way to solve these situations.

No, I think there is a better way. Instead of trying to look good in others eye, we must first look ourselves through our own eyes.Why I m saying this is because we should not depend on any others opinion about you. If we will depend, then we will just live our lives based on others likes and dislikes. Our life should not be what others want it to be, it should be what you want it to be.There are many peoples with a different set of life’s experience, if we will base our life on their reaction toward our action, in keeping everyone happy we will never be able to express what we actually are. And that’s a big loss. So, let others think what they wanna think. If you think that your intention and your doings are not bad, then you should always feel good about yourself. You can say to yourself that Continue Reading..

21
Jul

Positive thinking leads to positive life

Positive thinking is a skill that can be learned to create happiness. According to psychology, our mind controls our body. Each person is very much capable of controlling their own mind to achieve what they desire but sometimes we fail to do so. We fail because we value others thoughts and judgments in spite of believing on own thoughts. And leads us to the nasty world of negativity. So, taking the control of your mind becomes an important factor in keeping your body healthy.

Positive thinking starts with self-talk.

Self-talk? What is it?

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21
Jul

HOPE IS THE NEW BEGINNING

I have now passed my bachelors and live an independent life. I look back and see that a lot has changed, in the past few years. I grew up and by that I mean not just physically but mentally and emotionally. I remember the day I entered my college. I was a pampered child of my house, also was loved unconditionally and suddenly I saw my life was changing. I came to live in the hostel with a few strange people in a room obviously, not everybody was my kind. I was the kind of person who did not socialize much, who used to stay in bed and get all the work done by the maid or anyone else but me.
I had issues since day one. Adjustment issues, working issues, being independent was yet another task I was doing badly at. I kind of got habitual of complaining about everything that ever happened to me, and blamed my parents for ruining my life and freedom. I started to get depressed and isolated myself, even more, had no friends to share things with and neither did I feel the need.
But one day, like other normal days, I was trying to do the dishes and I saw this girl, small, weird but pretty in her Continue Reading..

01
Jul

Let’s Concentrate Little More – How to concentrate in a better way

How often do you feel that You are not able to concentrate? or your mind just wanders off to different places ?

Don’t worry ! it happens to all of us. And that’s what this article is all about. Concentration !

Concentration is the ability to focus on the task you have in your hand and say goodbye to all the distractions and diversions. It is one of the pivotal prerequisites for success.

So, how do we achieve this concentration? First and foremost, our mind makeup plays an important role. If we are under stress or not in a good mood, our attention is going to waver eventually. So it is very important that we approach any task with a fresh approach. Advancing towards our goal with enthusiasm is the real key to success. I know it seems like this is all everyone keeps telling to us, but having a positive attitude has a huge impact on our lives. Also, stress is one of the main reasons for the lack of concentration on the task which is in progress. So, indulging in regular physical exercise and meditation is also important.

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01
Jul

Do not let peer pressure control you

“Just a puff”, everyone said and that’s how it all started. Unofficial fresher’s party at college, not wanting to be called out a loser, she gave it a try. She did not like it but everyone was smoking so she figured she’d continue. Slowly, she started getting the hang of it. ‘I had fun but this was the first and last time’ she thought as she returned to the hostel. But what do you know, one party to another and into the time she had progressed from smoking to drinking to drugs. 9 months gone and she is an addict now. Her grades are falling; she has lost the sense of the person she used to be; everyone is concerned about her.

Only if she had the nerve to say no at that first party, you could have seen a different person altogether- bright, smart and sincere. Only if she could get past her fears and insecurities, she would be leading a different path right now.

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