Tag: Lessons

16
Aug

Gossips- I don’t fear you now

In life, we meet lots of people. Some of them like us, some of them don’t. But have you noticed that those who don’t like us used to like us some time? They start disliking when they find something which they think is wrong. And this disliking is just based on their own life’s experience till today. When we get to know this, these things start to bother over mind a lot of times. Our mind cannot see itself not liked by someone. But this is a mind’s problem. Let’s try to see the complete picture.

Suppose someone was once our friend. They used to talk to us nicely. When they came closer, they get to know us. Some of our habits started bothering them. They start thinking about those habits and judging us that why I am like this. When we get to know that they don’t like us because of some habit, first of all, we are hurt. And our mind cannot accept this fact. So it tries to solve this. We go to that person and try to solve it. We somehow manage to feel that now they think good for us. This is what all of us do. But is it the best way to solve these situations.

No, I think there is a better way. Instead of trying to look good in others eye, we must first look ourselves through our own eyes.Why I m saying this is because we should not depend on any others opinion about you. If we will depend, then we will just live our lives based on others likes and dislikes. Our life should not be what others want it to be, it should be what you want it to be.There are many peoples with a different set of life’s experience, if we will base our life on their reaction toward our action, in keeping everyone happy we will never be able to express what we actually are. And that’s a big loss. So, let others think what they wanna think. If you think that your intention and your doings are not bad, then you should always feel good about yourself. You can say to yourself that Continue Reading..

12
Aug

Saturday Surprise #3: “Don’t doubt yourself” by Varun Agarawal

Hello Friends, how was your last week? As always here I am with another Saturday Surprise #4. For a reminder, today(12th Aug 2017) is the  32nd Saturday of 2017 out of  52.  As we have completed our 50% of 2017 and still thinking of starting to work on our dreams that we have planned in January. So, for inspiring all of you and make you aware that time is passing and 2017 is already also reaching  to its half century

So, for inspiring all of you and make you aware that time is passing and 2017 is already also reaching to its half century today’s surprise is Ink Talk by Varun Agarwal. Continue Reading..

27
Jul

First Principle thinking: Elon Musk’s way to solve the problems

Elon is perhaps the world’s most innovative and successful entrepreneur. He is a  nonconformist and thinks that he can change the world. He is one of those few human beings who think differently, out of league someone can ever imagine.

Elon’s company SpaceX has developed a new technology to reuse the orbital launch system as many times as you want. The idea of reusing the orbital launch system can save a lot of money and make space mission more economical. It’s brilliant, isn’t it? Tesla Sedan S and other electric vehicles are also another examples of his excellent innovative thinking.

So, the question is how does Elon think differently than us? In many of his interview, Elon has talked about his way of think differently and is called First Principle Thinking.  and anyone can use this principle to solve problems in the more generic way.

What is first principle thinking?

In Elon’s  words ” First principle is a physics way of looking at the world, what that really means is that you boil things down to the most fundamental truths and then reason up from there…that takes a lot more mental energy.”

How will it help you?

Reasoning by first principle is important because it helps you to break down the situation at ground level and look at the fundamental facts. Understanding of the fundamental facts of the situation can help you to develop your own way to solve a problem rather than looking it as the rest of world thinks.

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21
Jul

Positive thinking leads to positive life

Positive thinking is a skill that can be learned to create happiness. According to psychology, our mind controls our body. Each person is very much capable of controlling their own mind to achieve what they desire but sometimes we fail to do so. We fail because we value others thoughts and judgments in spite of believing on own thoughts. And leads us to the nasty world of negativity. So, taking the control of your mind becomes an important factor in keeping your body healthy.

Positive thinking starts with self-talk.

Self-talk? What is it?

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21
Jul

HOPE IS THE NEW BEGINNING

I have now passed my bachelors and live an independent life. I look back and see that a lot has changed, in the past few years. I grew up and by that I mean not just physically but mentally and emotionally. I remember the day I entered my college. I was a pampered child of my house, also was loved unconditionally and suddenly I saw my life was changing. I came to live in the hostel with a few strange people in a room obviously, not everybody was my kind. I was the kind of person who did not socialize much, who used to stay in bed and get all the work done by the maid or anyone else but me.
I had issues since day one. Adjustment issues, working issues, being independent was yet another task I was doing badly at. I kind of got habitual of complaining about everything that ever happened to me, and blamed my parents for ruining my life and freedom. I started to get depressed and isolated myself, even more, had no friends to share things with and neither did I feel the need.
But one day, like other normal days, I was trying to do the dishes and I saw this girl, small, weird but pretty in her Continue Reading..