Category: Truth of Life

17
Aug

Long Distance Relationships (even saying it takes time)

Hey, friends, this post is not for all of us. Ya, anyone can read it. But, only some will get something out of it. And I think the post title conveys who is gonna like this post.

Long distance relationships are very common between 22-28 years age people. And sometimes it starts before that age too. In starting, nothing looks so different. As we have lots of memories to stick on. This easy going time may last for a year or two. It very much depends on the circumstances in which you are living. If we have friends who spend a lot of time with their boyfriends, doing clubbing or if you are studying in a really romantic place like some hill stations, then life’s gonna show you tough times.  And the easy going time will soon be over and you are gonna miss everything you had. You will meet new peoples and would definitely want to spend some quality time with some of them. And there may be someone who is attracted towards you, or you are attracted towards someone. Millions of thoughts run through your mind.  You don’t want to cheat your boyfriend/ girlfriend ever. But you can’t deny the fact that you are missing what others are having. So, you pass many days and ignore the feeling which you are going through. Well, it’s easy to say that you have to control yourself and be loyal. But, it is easy only for saying. Doing it takes your heart and soul out. But does long distance relationships supposed to be like this? So much pain, so much struggle.Continue Reading..

16
Aug

Gossips- I don’t fear you now

In life, we meet lots of people. Some of them like us, some of them don’t. But have you noticed that those who don’t like us used to like us some time? They start disliking when they find something which they think is wrong. And this disliking is just based on their own life’s experience till today. When we get to know this, these things start to bother over mind a lot of times. Our mind cannot see itself not liked by someone. But this is a mind’s problem. Let’s try to see the complete picture.

Suppose someone was once our friend. They used to talk to us nicely. When they came closer, they get to know us. Some of our habits started bothering them. They start thinking about those habits and judging us that why I am like this. When we get to know that they don’t like us because of some habit, first of all, we are hurt. And our mind cannot accept this fact. So it tries to solve this. We go to that person and try to solve it. We somehow manage to feel that now they think good for us. This is what all of us do. But is it the best way to solve these situations.

No, I think there is a better way. Instead of trying to look good in others eye, we must first look ourselves through our own eyes.Why I m saying this is because we should not depend on any others opinion about you. If we will depend, then we will just live our lives based on others likes and dislikes. Our life should not be what others want it to be, it should be what you want it to be.There are many peoples with a different set of life’s experience, if we will base our life on their reaction toward our action, in keeping everyone happy we will never be able to express what we actually are. And that’s a big loss. So, let others think what they wanna think. If you think that your intention and your doings are not bad, then you should always feel good about yourself. You can say to yourself that Continue Reading..

09
Aug

How to give your 100% at the right time

We all must have heard a number of times in different places about- ” Just giving your 100% and stop worrying about the result”. But no one told how and when to do it. Timing and the way we give our 100% is more important than being 100% all the time. I can prove this point just by illustrating some situations.

Whenever we start some new course like graduation/ post- graduation or join a new company, people tell us that we can relax in starting but later we will have to work harder for work completion. But according to me this is the right time for giving your 100%

How to give your 100%?

  1. Now, who so ever says this must have done the same thing in their life too. They say that we can RELAX because there is less work to do in every course in initial phases. But if you really want to be good in something, this initial phase where there is the least burden from academics, you can actually gain +1  points here by doing some homework on your course/job and be a smart guy.
  2. The second reason is – ” The first impression is the last impression”. And trust me either you are in college or in a company, the impression has a big role to play. So instead of representing your lazy self to your boss or your professor.You can become someone who shows interest in every meeting/lecture, who has done a self-study of what’s going to be discussed. In short, just genuinely giving your 100% at the start of your new work. Timing cannot be more perfect.
  3. The last and very important reason is- “Coming out of inertia”. We all have heard about Newton’ s law of inertia. I m not gonna discuss the law, so don’t worry. But the law somewhere says that when some object is not moving(inertia), we need to apply some force for moving it depending upon what speed we want to give to the object. Same thing applies to our life, if we have to come out of inertia of not studying, we need to apply some motivation. Now, the biggest benefit of giving 100 %  in initial phase is that the speed you want to acquire is really low and you can easily get such motivation. But if you RELAX and wait for the burden to increase, you will require an equal amount of inner motivation and commitment.  

It is very well known that this is not what everyone can do and I am no one to force you. I am just trying to show some positive facts of giving 100% at right time. So, guys, I hope this post will be helpful for some of us who wants to be a smart worker in his/ her field.

22
Jul

Put your Best Foot Forward…

The long and tiring admission procedure dominates aspirant’s minds as soon as they are done with their intermediate exams , which involves various life-changing decisions. A lot of pressure and huge expectations are placed on a student’s shoulders after all its that’s why we study, to make a  bright career . And the juncture that most students get caught up at is the great debate of the college versus  course.

On one hand one have a prominent, reputed college with great market value of its own, while on the other hand you have your interests, your desired course. So its definitely  a very tough call to make. With such cut throat competition one can’t simply pursue any course in any college. The decision has to be well thought of.  And before making this decision, a student should understand that a college tags for three/four years while the discipline tags throughout the career.

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21
Jul

HOPE IS THE NEW BEGINNING

I have now passed my bachelors and live an independent life. I look back and see that a lot has changed, in the past few years. I grew up and by that I mean not just physically but mentally and emotionally. I remember the day I entered my college. I was a pampered child of my house, also was loved unconditionally and suddenly I saw my life was changing. I came to live in the hostel with a few strange people in a room obviously, not everybody was my kind. I was the kind of person who did not socialize much, who used to stay in bed and get all the work done by the maid or anyone else but me.
I had issues since day one. Adjustment issues, working issues, being independent was yet another task I was doing badly at. I kind of got habitual of complaining about everything that ever happened to me, and blamed my parents for ruining my life and freedom. I started to get depressed and isolated myself, even more, had no friends to share things with and neither did I feel the need.
But one day, like other normal days, I was trying to do the dishes and I saw this girl, small, weird but pretty in her Continue Reading..